Tuesday, December 30, 2025

Those Deserving of Admiration.

 Those Deserving of Admiration.

 

Reading about a woman who outranked every general in the Civil War, it seems she made it her calling to take care of the misery, the stupidity, and the necessities that came up in the true service for those men who fought, sickened, and died—or lived through those horrors. Her name was Mary Anne Bickerdyke. She thought that she was just going to deliver supplies to those men who were fighting in battles. Instead, she furnished cleanliness, food, shelter, and comfort to those who would otherwise have died in each camp. Sometimes our least expectations turn into something that only God can change to something that matters. But then, that was how it has always been when God puts forth His hand in the affairs of men and women.

 

It is not always an individual who makes a difference in lives, but for some of us, it is the single person’s example that change our viewpoints. Have you ever heard someone tell a story about something your parent or grandparent has done that mattered to that person? It may be something that your father taught some young man. Or it might have been the attitude that your mom helped some young woman deal with when life seemed all too much at a time. Or maybe it was just the cookies shared over the backyard fence with the kids next door. A child notices when an adult talks to them as if they matter. No one has to brag on a child to make a difference in attitude if an adult simply shows by word or deed that a child really does matter. Sometimes a word of admiration will make all the difference in how a person sees his or her own character. Let us keep looking for the best in those we see.

 

My friend Roger told me that his father-in-law has moved on from this world to the next. Know that Susan will miss her dad. Apparently, he was a very happy man—three good wives over a period of years. He must have been doing something right! Let’s pray for Roger and Susan’s safe return to Texas.

 

Trying to have a good attitude around here. Dr. Blackwell told me that preventing some of the pain will make a difference, so here’s to taking the pills she recommended. Guessing that Dr. Kern will need a box of galvanized baling wire to put things back together, but my daughter seems to think that some of the problems can be alleviated with exercises. After translating the MRI results into ChapGpt, the old woman only understands a few more words that describe strictures and narrowing of certain boney structures. Just need to work on having a sense of humor.

 

Cooked some chicken breasts, turnip, celery, and spices this evening. It smells so good. Just wish the number of turnips had been about four times as many! What is it about turnips that make them smell so very good? Oh! Please don’t tell me that you don’t like turnips!!! They are good raw or cooked! Bet the next order of groceries includes several turnips!!

 

We need rain around here. The grass is brown, naturally, but the ground itself is dry, dry, dry! Hoping that God blesses the land with some rain very soon. No, we don’t need the amounts seen in Washington state or Oregon, but even a few inches could certainly make a difference for the fields and crops. May God bless this land.

 

It’s hard to realize that we are just about into a new year. Somehow, and this happens every year, it does not really seem as if a new year is anywhere nearby. The trees have lost their leaves and the grasses have strown their seeds. Now if the Harvester ants can gather up the seeds, maybe we can grow some little horny toads around here. Wouldn’t that be wonderful! God makes things have their own cycles of life. Appreciating life includes loving God’s designs. May He show us His mighty ways every day!

 

Keep loving and learning more as the days go by. We are so very blessed.

 

Rest well, my friends. You are loved.

Monday, December 29, 2025

The Results. [MRI]

 The Results. [MRI]

 

Have found myself feeling pretty resigned to being a burden on my children for at least a couple of months. Will have to wait until Dr. Kern has time to work on repairing my back before we know when this will begin, but can just say that at least we now know what is wrong. No, not sure just how it all came about, but the left side is messed up except for the place the doctor repaired the first time. That part won’t need any further work done on it. Deep sigh.

 

Heard from Roger today while they are in Wisconsin. Cold and icy up there. Her dad lives up that way, don’t you see. Can’t imagine wanting to be there in this weather for any other reason. But then, some folks feel that way about being in Texas during tornado season. Let’s face it, the weather makes the attitudes.

 

United sent the sweetest lady to deliver some Rx today after lunch. She informed me that her husband delivers my mail on the days that Kevin is not running the route. Enjoyed visiting with her even for that short little spell. Funny how we meet folks that have other connections to us. Have no idea if any mail was delivered today, but don’t feel like wobbling out there to find out.

 

Had chicken egg rolls for din-upper today. But also had three cups of chicken bouillon. That stuff is better than coffee as far as how it treats my body. Warm and comforting and non-caffeine. Still, enjoy the taste of coffee first thing in the morning even if it has to be decaf. Dogs don’t care as long as they get fed first before Mom sits down to have her coffee.

 

The military kids across the street are still not back from Washington state. Hope all is well with them and that their flight can take off despite the weird weather. Know the cats will probably be ok, so promising myself not to worry about it. Still, if it is necessary, maybe I can get Albert to walk me over there to check on them in a day or two if the kids are not back. They expected to be gone four days. Today is the fourth one. Here’s hoping.

 

Woke up thinking it was Sunday. Doesn’t take much to mess up my internal calendar. At least Thompson got the right pill from his pill box even if the old woman took the one for Sunday. Rolling eyes here. Yes, the silly phone would be happy to tell me the day of the week if someone were smart enough to look at it. Oh well.

 

Have some celery that needs to be either cooked or otherwise prepared for meals. Thinking celery stuffed with pimento cheese would be nice if the celery is still crisp. If it is soggy, well. Hate to waste food, but soggy celery is pretty doggone useless. Not even soup is improved with soggy stuff.

 

The dogs have had quite a bit of ground turkey that they eat like champs! It does have a good taste to it. They clean their bowls up completely! It was easy to cook two chubs of that stuff and put it up in a closed bowl to portion out as needed. Even Thompson stands there waiting for it to be placed on the feeding stand. Yes! He likes it! Cheese is good, but this stuff is better, obviously!

 

Patty and the old woman were trying to find something funny to talk about this morning. Seems like we get a laugh out of some of the dang-est things. We just enjoy griping about the weather and when we have to turn on the heaters or turn on the ceiling fans! Never know which it will be! Life is never all that dull. And then, we know we can enjoy griping together at least once a day!

 

Filling up water bottles around here has kept me walking from one room to another to be sure each room has at least two bottles to empty during a day or night. Determined not to become dehydrated! Who knew that water drinking could be so very important!

 

Hoping to hear from Rylan and his family soon. Thought they were coming one day this week, but have not heard from them. Pictures are great, but little boy hugs are fantastic! God gives us the grands to help us remember the first ones we loved.

 

Rest well, my friends. You are loved.

Sunday, December 21, 2025

Dictionary Time.

 Dictionary Time.

 

Reading a series of cozy mysteries lately and found myself disgusted because the “normal” dictionary attached to the Kindle did not include the word “lugubriously.” It means “exaggerated mournfulness.” We’re not talking about tears and weepy faces here. This is more like an attitude for appearances. Anyway, had to look it up and was glad that Jennifer had put my good dictionary in the bookcase in the living room where it could stand out and be seen. Saul Bellow has been—so far—the only author whose vocabulary kept my dictionary handy by necessity. Guess that says something about my choices in literature.

 

My neighbor Patty told me some things about Wikipedia that made me decide to NEVER support that source again. She said that the anti-Christ remarks were all it took to put her totally off! But then, reading this series about folks (especially ministers) of the Anglican persuasion have made me realize that if a person does not stand for something, they will just about stand for anything! Thinking that attitude got Israel in a bunch of trouble more times than one!

 

Stripped my bed and have the sheets on washing. The top bedspread is a heavy thing that picks up dog hair like a magnet, so that is next. Dread putting it in the washer, but have no desire to go to a laundromat. Both of the dog beds really should be washed, but that is not happening right now either. Stubborn ol’ woman!

 

Received an expected box from Amazon yesterday that the delivery person set right against the front storm door. That was fun! Anyway, got the new sweat pants and a top out and washed them last night. These all have pockets!! Why any garment can be made without a pocket is beyond me!!! Mother made all of my clothes when she was sewing, but she never included a pocket!! But then, patterns did not include pockets for little girls! Silly designers!

 

Saw a picture of Lowry Mayo with one of his adopted grandchildren at what looked to be a school cafeteria. Mentioned that it was hopeful that all the children were becoming educated now that they were state-side and in a stable environment. NOT that it is any of my business, but English language in reading, writing, and speech is so important. Oh, it would be lovely to know Hebrew or even Yiddish, but the language of the place we live is the most important. Lowry has the means to help these children become educated, so if he is helping them assimilate, that is the kindest thing he could do for them.

 

Just finished my cup of hot apple cider. Not sure it is better than an apple, but it is much simpler to consume. And it seems to help my digestive issues while taking this prednisone. Like Patty says quite often, “If it is not one thing, it’s another!” One thing for the arthritis and pain, and one thing to keep another system going!

 

Carol Thonton said that West Texas is clear today, and Sterling said it was lovely up around Gentry, Arkansas. Here it is cloudy and breezy. At least it is not flooding and pouring buckets from the heavens above!

 

Just read that Christmas brings in nearly $1 Trillion in revenue for retailers every year. Thinking about all that wrapping paper just about staggers my mind. Then there is the statement made by Senator John Kennedy of Louisiana that 287 people died of gunshots here in the U.S. this year. But(t) 2,187 died of constipation! So, you don’t want to be full of shtuff!

 

My friend near the Wichita Mountains in Oklahoma said that her brother Bruce had had a heart attack a day ago. Have not contacted her to see how he is yet because her phone number is not in my list. But have prayed that he, along with others recovering from heart problems (David Baxter included) will heal and get back on their feet quickly. God made our bodies to be amazingly versatile and healable, but we have to take care to treat them well. Let us pray for those whose health is in jeopardy for whatever reason. All the weird stuff that affects us in not necessarily our fault, but we have to try to remove the obviously bad things that hurt us. Let us be aware for ourselves and compassionate toward others.

 

Rest well, my friends. You are loved.

Friday, December 19, 2025

Just Thinking and Wondering.

 Just Thinking and Wondering.

 

Have spent an inordinate amount of time on FB today. Have not accomplished much either. Saw that President Trump has sent in the Warthogs to dump on Syria for their attack on our soldiers. LOVE those planes! But hate that this was necessary. Hope the soldiers’ families can have the comfort and peace that only God can provide. So very much is happening right now all over the world—and then we look at the Northwest and all the flooding. It just seems as if it is one thing right after another. The climate has become as warped as some of the ideas men have come up with about how to actually create more power—the electrical kind and the political kind.

 

Neighbor Max brought the dog food in off the bench on the front porch and placed the bag in the big, black trash container (used only for dog food). So glad to have that done already. He and Laisha will be flying out to Tacoma sometime soon to see how things are at the base where they will be stationed. Will hope that they find a happy place for them to live. Also, hope that Laisha will find work as quickly as possible. She does not like to be “still” and not have a job.

 

Shona has had her hands full with trying to get things squared away with her mom, and then today when they were transferring her from her bed to her chair, she passed out and was taken to the hospital. Think she will be ok, but know it upset Shona to not be able to be there for her mom. Know how she feels. Moms are pretty important in the larger scheme of things.

 

Touching base with Judie Brunson and Patty today meant a couple of texts and one phone call, but then things got busy. Talked with Cousin Wham for a bit and she explained why her wrists were both immobile. The surgeons had to remove a bone in each wrist to straighten them out from the stupid arthritis. Can’t imagine how she worked around all that, but she had a great attitude. We discussed how much different knee surgery is as compared to hip replacement. She has two new knees and two new hips. Shaking my head here. But then she had to tell me about her new car with all the bells and whistles. It’s a hybrid that does not have to be plugged in—ever. Sounds great.

 

The entire neighborhood must have had deliveries today by FedEx and the postal service. The postman had me sign for a big bag of meds from Optum, and the FedEx young man handled the dogfood and another box to place on my bench on the front porch. Then, later this evening, after the trash truck came and dumped out everything, my young neighbor brought my trash bin back into my yard. AJ is the sweetest young kid, but he is going to be one VERY tall man someday. He is not even a teenager yet and is probably taller than this old woman!!

 

Had a cup of real coffee today and am wondering if sleep will happen tonight. Almost worth it just to enjoy the coffee. Had intended to find a recipe for egg noodles and try to make some like Mother used to make. Have long since forgotten how she made hers, but remember that they had to sit out on the table on her pie board to “dry” before she cooked them. Maybe a recipe will pop up online tomorrow.

 

Max said that Christmas Eve and the day after Christmas were going to become federal holidays. That will be different. Wondering how Walmart will handle not having their stores packed with returns on the 26th every year!! Can you tell that Walmart is not my favorite store?

 

Sometimes we all need to remember that this time of the year is a bit harder on some folks than any other time. Memories, both hard and good, can make life a bit more lonesome and harder to appreciate. And then there are those who can’t even afford to eat, put on clean underwear or socks, nor call anywhere home. Let us pray and DO whatever is within our means to help others. Our prayers make a difference in the lives of others—especially for little ones like the granddaughter of Diann Dennis. Little Raye may lose an eye if the cancer cannot be stopped. Let us hold her and her family in our hearts.

 

While other places are flooding, we could use some rain, but let God be our guide and help with what the land will need for the growth of pastures and crops this next year. Rejoice that God loves us.

 

Rest well, my friends. You are loved.

Saturday, November 22, 2025

Wet Leaves.

 Wet Leaves.

 

It’s that time of year when nearly every surface is covered with wet leaves from the Western Soapberry trees or from the hackberry tree out front. No way can one go in and out without bringing in at least a few on the bottom of a shoe. Oh well. Just wait until that silly Bradford pear shakes lose its load of colored leaves! A person could go sliding on those things!

 

After putting two containers of Fiesta soup in the top freezer, the rest of the soup went down the gullet this morning. Gone, but not forgotten! Just good soup. Then cut up the last two red bell peppers and stirred up Ranch style seasoning with sour cream for a good snack. Nothing wasted around here.

 

Sent a big roasting pan over to Max and Laisha for the turkey that they plan to cook along with some cornbread mixes, stuffing mix, and some instant potato mix. Did not have any cranberry sauce in the pantry, but such is life. Max is not a fan of cranberries anyway. He just does not appreciate good, tangy flavors.

 

Washed a big furry blanket that normally stays on my bed. It takes a while—two cycles—to get it dry, but the dryer also removes most, if not all—of the dog hair. Think it would be nice and cuddly just for a rainy-day nap. Might have one of those coming up tomorrow.

 

Will have to get Daniel to check out my computer by remote. It is still giving me those little flashes across the screen. Surely hope that it is not about to go out. Computers are so much cheaper than they were, but who wants to put out money on anything extra right now!! So glad to have Daniel and his Night Shift computer work handy.

 

Saw on FB that a family in Arkansas went to the movies and one of the kids got stung by a wasp that was in a nest in the chair. Good grief! Horrors! Can’t imagine wasps taking up residence in a movie theater! Those things really cause some of us to have bad reactions to their stings. Still have a place on my right elbow that itches from the last sting two months ago!

 

We can gather this next week with family or neighbors in a thankful attitude—or simply at home by ourselves. Thankfulness is not restricted to one day or a particular time. Each day is another gift from God. Good health is about the greatest gift for our physical bodies, but God’s forgiveness is the greatest gift of all.

 

Was thinking about all the money and time put into most Christmas celebrations. When we were young, we got things that we really needed: a coat, sock, a hat, or a warm sweater. Wouldn’t it be something if folks were to change their habits to giving to those who actually need something rather than just hanging gifts to those who can afford to buy their own clothes and accessories. No gift wrap needed. No gift list needs to be consulted. Just put your money where your mouth is. Give with love instead of some family obligation.

 

Whether or not we can afford to give necessities to others, we can always give love in many other ways. Smiles, compliments, giving the right away, or just opening a door for someone can be a source of a loving gesture. Let us be loving.

 

Rest well, my friends. You are loved.

Thursday, November 20, 2025

Two Rooms and the Hall.

 Two Rooms and the Hall.

 

Vacuumed and mopped the kitchen and living room and vacuumed the hall. Guess who needed to sit down and be still for a bit! Used Lysol with peroxide on the dish washer and deep freeze where things seem to get spilled or otherwise look yucky. Have been using the dishwasher for storage for some years now, but if it was ever needed again, the seal would undoubtedly need to be replaced along with the thing that goes on the faucet to attach the hose. Oh well. No biggie. Hardly ever have more than a drain rack full of pots, pans, and dishes.

 

Had made a list for United earlier and thought it had been finished and gone through. Nope. Forgot to hit the button for the purchase. Duh. Anyway, now that the pickup time has come and gone, the old woman has to wait until five to go pick up the stuff on my list. Nothing exceptionally or desperately needed. Just discovered that meat is not needed for a topper on the dogs’ kibble. They absolutely LOVE cheese! So, some shredded cheese has them cleaning their bowls!

 

Earlier the rain was more a mist than anything, but it will be sure enough rain by five. Such is life. We need the rain. So far, my weather station has said .69 inches, but the fence gauge says something over one and half—plus a nice little spider. Maybe it didn’t get dumped after the last rain?

 

A disease that can kill horses and is highly contagious is currently making the rounds among the high caliber show and working horses in Texas, Oklahoma, and Louisiana. It is a type of herpesvirus. “Officials say the virus spreads through horse contact, shared buckets and tack, contaminated trailers, and airborne droplets.” It is a super good time to keep at home with your animals if you don’t want to risk losing any horses. And, it is a good time to clean and disinfect trailers, tack, and your own boots! Back when the old woman was still riding, the worse thing we seemed to have was equine encephalitis. It came from mosquitoes. But our critters were vaccinated every year. But that was back when they allowed us to vaccinate our dogs and cats for rabies!

 

The dogs are currently having hysterical fits about the Terminex man who is walking around Max and Laisha’s house. As far as the dogs are concerned, he simply should not be there!! GOOD DOGS!!

 

Still enjoying following Senator John Kennedy of Louisiana while he rips the non-citizens among the Senate. Really do not think we need anyone in Congress unless that person is a citizen of the U.S.—PERIOD! No, half way citizens! Same with any office that serves our nation’s government. We do have military who are not citizens, and to tell the truth, that seems pretty sketchy to me. How do we know where their loyalties lie? The religion or race is not the problem. The nationality IS the problem.

 

Ok, have just about decided that the old woman needs more than just to sit down and drink water. Actually, had a cup of real coffee this morning, but it should not keep me from sleeping tonight since not much sleeping went on LAST night! Dadgumit! Getting older has its perks—sitting here thinking about that. Yes, can enjoy watching all my children deal with life in manners much different than what we once knew. But then, they never have known what it has been like to not have a phone or a TV. In 1948, the minimum wage in some areas was forty cents an hour. Can remember Daddy rejoicing when he finally got seventy-five cents an hour for his work. Our children have no idea what that was like. Yes, it can be compared to whatever today’s money would be worth, but can almost bet that what we bought—the BASICS—were so much more important than the silliness of today’s purchases. And our gift giving back then was something useful—socks, underwear, gloves, a hat! Someday it would be interesting to compare what we enjoyed to what the kids think is important.

 

We have always—ALWAYS—been so blessed. We were loved and had what we needed for the most part. Oh, it would have been nice to have more than one pair of shoes per year, but we did not HAVE to go barefoot. And we were basically warm enough most of the winter. But sometimes our parents went without so that we could have clothes and better food. Blessings on parents and those who HAD that kind of parents! God provides what is needed.

 

Rest well, my friends. You are loved.

Friday, November 14, 2025

Slowly Gaining Ground.

 Slowly Gaining Ground.

 

Accomplished ONE thing today: went to Barnett Rd. for lab tests. No big deal, but fasting and no Rx taken this a.m. Then forgot to take Rx after returning home. Senile, yet?

 

Reece was supposed to get to go home from the hospital this afternoon if all went well. But they let him have solid food today and he still has to stay tonight just in case it flares back up. Ulcers are not any fun at all. Been there, done that. SO many folks have this problem. Something about the way we live our lives must be part of the problem. Too much to worry about. Anyway, please keep him in your prayers.

 

Mary Rhoads had planned to bring her grandson over to see the hens this afternoon, but that did not happen. Maybe tomorrow. Kids like critters when they are calm, and these girls are calm if anything.

 

Patty called today and had a few things on her mind. She got a bang out of telling me what Senator Kennedy had been saying—always hilarious. He is so much like Shakespeare in his dry sarcastic remarks about some politicians. Wish humor like that were more prevalent instead of the tacky stuff we hear everywhere!

 

Let us try to be respectful even when we feel that idiots prevail. Some of us really despised a certain president some years back, but we NEVER wished ill upon him. That simply is not Christian. Let us ask God to guide even those who are ditzy with whatever is best for folks. That position has become increasingly important in this era. Our job is to pray for leaders and for this country and for those who especially need God’s blessings.

 

Rest well, my friends. You are loved.